Influencers stopped caring about the pandemic. Here’s why thats so dangerous.
2023-04-02 10:03:12author:dointy.com
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Influencers stopped caring about the pandemic. Here’s why thats so dangerous.
Influencers are acting like the pandemic is over. It's not.
Jake Paul threw a massive house party last week at his Calabasas mansion amid soaring COVID-19 cases in California. Videos from the party show dozens of attendees crowded in the controversial YouTuber’s living room, with no regard for the recommended six feet of distance to limit potential virus spread. Nobody visible in the videos wore a mask.
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The community of Calabasas was rightfully furious at Paul — it’s not the first, and likely won’t be the last time he’s angered his neighbors.
"They’re having this large party, no social distancing, no masks, it’s just a big huge disregard for everything that everybody is trying to do to get things back to functioning," Calabasas mayor Alicia Weintraub told Fox 11. "It’s just a party acting like COVID does not exist, it’s acting that businesses aren’t closed."
Roughly four months after most of the United States established stay-at-home orders in an effort to curb the spread of the coronavirus, the pandemic is still raging. The country has seen more than 3.8 million cases and surpassed 141,000 COVID-related deaths as of Wednesday, according to data from the Centers for Disease Control(Opens in a new tab). Los Angeles County, which includes Calabasas, hit a record high(Opens in a new tab) of hospitalizations on Monday as well, with 2,232 people hospitalized for COVID-19 symptoms. And of those hospitalized, the Los Angeles Timesreports(Opens in a new tab), 26 percent are in intensive care.
Alarmingly, cases among younger adults are on the rise. Almost "50 percent of cases" occur among people younger than 40, L.A. County director of public health Barbara Ferrer said after the Fourth of July. It’s roughly a 20 percent increase from cases in early April. California Gov. Gavin Newsom blamed it on the “young invincibles” returning to work and attending social gatherings.
Large parties aren't only hotspots for coronavirus transmission, they're also hell for contact tracing. In Florida, health officials struggled to keep track of potential COVID-19 exposure because of the state's relentless partying, despite closed bars and restaurants. In New York, Rockland County officials had to issue eight subpoenas to partygoers in their 20s who refused to answer basic questions from contact tracers.
"Going a single party can completely exhaust the capacity of the health department to be able to do contact tracing."
Dr. Anne Rimoin, an epidemiologist who specializes in infectious disease at the Fielding School of Public Health at the University of California, Los Angeles, worries about the strain that large parties like the one Paul hosted will have on health departments.
"It becomes very difficult to be able to nail down who was within six feet of somebody for 15 minutes or more," Dr. Rimoin said in a phone call to Mashable. "Going a single party can completely exhaust the capacity of the health department to be able to do contact tracing."
In an interview with WebMD(Opens in a new tab), Dr. Anthony Fauci implored young people to continue social distancing, blaming them for "propagating the pandemic" by "not caring."
"By allowing yourself to get infected or not caring if you get infected, you are propagating a pandemic," Fauci said. "Because it doesn’t end with you. You get infected and you have no symptoms. The chances are you’re going to infect someone else, who will then infect someone else."
At that point, the virus could infect someone who’s older or immunocompromised.
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"And then someone who’s vulnerable to severe consequences will get infected. That could be [somebody’s] father, mother, or grandmother. It could be a sick child who’s immunodeficient," Fauci said. "Then, all of a sudden you’re not operating in a vacuum. You’re part of the problem as opposed to being part of the solution."
While Fauci noted that "blaming [young people] won’t help," even though the virus' spread has been linked(Opens in a new tab) to the reopening of bars and restaurants, influencers with large platforms can and should be doing more to stay at home. They have immense reach and unique access to younger populations that health officials are struggling to find. In his interview with WebMD, Fauci emphasized the importance of reaching young people, which is why he's appeared on Julia Robert's Instagram Live and Lil Wayne's podcast.
But those with massive platforms, like Jake Paul, who ignore social distancing recommendations are undoing much of the country's progress.
"People who are in prominent positions in the media and in particular, these influencers, have exactly that: influence. And they could be doing their part to help stop the spread of this virus."
"People who are in prominent positions in the media and in particular, these influencers, have exactly that: influence," Dr. Rimoin added. "And they could be doing their part to help stop the spread of this virus. What we know right now is that masks and social distancing work. We cannot rely on any other kind of magic bullet. This virus doesn't care whether or not you believe in it, this virus is going to spread."
Paul isn't the only one to ease up on social distancing. Many TikTok stars have been meeting in person to collaborate on videos. Jason Derulo congratulated Dixie D'Amelio on the release of her new single "Be Happy" with a joint dance routine(Opens in a new tab) in late June, and featured viral beatboxer Spencer X in another video(Opens in a new tab) the next week. Then he joined Brent Rivera's creator incubator Amp Studios to shoot a few more videos in early July. D'Amelio posted a video(Opens in a new tab) from the Sway House, another creator incubator, on Monday. Members of the Sway House danced(Opens in a new tab) with beauty YouTuber James Charles over the weekend. Charles appeared(Opens in a new tab) on Logan Paul's podcast Impaulsive a few days before. Charles also featured the D'Amelio sisters in a YouTube video(Opens in a new tab) posted Tuesday. Several popular creators, including Tana Mongeau, were spotted(Opens in a new tab) at a birthday party for Larray, a member of the TikTok collective the Hype House.
Predictably, none of them were wearing masks in their videos, much less maintaining six feet of distance between each other. They may be getting tested before meeting up with each other, but continuing to record themselves in large groups sends a conflicting message to their often impressionable audience.
Do social distancing recommendations just not apply to influencers?
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Like Fauci said in his WebMD interview, none of us can exist in this pandemic in a vacuum. Every social interaction runs the risk of spreading infection further. Every time you interact with someone outside of the people you're already quarantining with, the web of potential infections grows. And while it's possible that everyone collaborating together is part of the same giant "quarantine bubble,(Opens in a new tab)" ensuring the necessary exclusivity to limit virus transmission to anyone outside of the group is increasingly difficult. As the New York Times(Opens in a new tab) reported on quarantine bubbles, the ideal bubble would be a "closed loop" — nobody inside the bubble interacts with anyone outside of it.
"The ideal thing is that we just stay home forever and never see anybody, but that's just not sustainable," Dr. Zoe McLaren a health policy researcher at the School of Public Policy at the University of Maryland told the New York Times. "Each additional person you add adds in more risk for everybody else in the group. Keeping the pod size small is really, really key for minimizing your risk."
It's highly unlikely that the influencers gathering are all quarantined together, much less agreeing to any sort of exclusivity.
Disappointed in the lack of consideration for social distancing, some former followers are taking it to the influencers' home turf to publicly shame them. In response to a group video posted by laurenkettlecorn, a TikTok creator with roughly half a million followers, user icryatnightcheck added a side-by-side screenshot(Opens in a new tab) of a Time article about California's spiking COVID-19 cases. TikTok user kyleto3 made a similar side-by-side video using one posted by Blake Gray, who has four million followers, and cheekily added "we dont care" over Gray's side of the video.
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Public shaming doesn't seem to work.
Is public shaming effective? Critics of cancel culture can hem and haw over how being "canceled" can ruin someone's life, but some frustrated former followers of certain influencers found that their idols didn't respond well to being called out. Despite the risk of traveling, We Wore What founder Danielle Bernstein spent the Fourth of July in the Hamptons.
The Instagram account influencerstruth(Opens in a new tab) criticized Bernstein in a post shortly after she attended a Fourth of July party and a dinner. In response to critics, Bernstein claimed attendees had to "submit testing results ahead of time" to prove that they weren't infected. Her followers were disappointed in her for attending in the first place.
"There are 2.4 million people seeing her invite people into her home and attend parties and then people will think it's OK to do [too.]"
One of Bernstein's former followers runs an account called wedonttakecovidseriouslywhat(Opens in a new tab), collecting screenshots of Bernstein's frequently deleted Instagram stories in an effort to hold her accountable before the stories time out.
"I was a long time follower but her behavior in the Hamptons/Montauk community has been pretty terrible in terms of partying and seeing tons of people," wedonttakecovidseriouslywhat said in an Instagram DM. They preferred not to share their name. "[It's] deeply upsetting because COVID cases are rising in the U.S. and there are 2.4 million people seeing her invite people into her home (very high risk) and attend parties and then people will think it's OK to do [too.]"
In response to the criticism, Bernstein blocked wedonttakecovidseriouslywhat, according to the person behind the account.
While the government's rush to reopen for the sake of the economy has muddled public perception of just how dangerous the coronavirus still is, Dr. Rimoin believes that many influencers have the opportunity to stress the importance of social distancing and mask wearing. To have a large platform with as much reach as many influencers do and not use it for the sake of public health is a missed opportunity. The pandemic isn't an individual issue — it's a societal one that everyone must collectively work toward curbing.
"Everybody needs to take responsibility. People who have a social platform, and have the ability to influence others, have an obligation to do the right thing," Dr. Rimoin concluded. "Our economy depends on it, our ability to get back to school depends on it, our ability to get back to normal depends on it. So everybody needs to be doing their part. There's no excuse."
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J.K. Rowling shuts down article calling Meghan Markle unsuitable with 1 hashtag
If you've been anywhere the internet/television/radio today, or spoken to pretty much anyone at all, chances are you'll have caught the news about Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's engagement.
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It's been pretty much everywhere, right?
Some people are excited, some people are indifferent -- and a few people, like Melanie McDonagh writing for (opens in a new tab)The Spectator(opens in a new tab), seemed less pleased.
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At the time of writing that tweet has 145 retweets, and a whopping 1,600 comments.
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Many replies followed a similar theme.
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Then J.K. Rowling waded in. And rather than talking about other royals who have been divorced, she opted for a simple hashtag.
Miss Jamaica showed off her natural afro during the Miss Universe pageant and the internet crowned her the true winner
You don't need a crown to be a winner.
Miss Jamaica Davina Bennett wore her natural afro at the Miss Universe 2017 and got an outpouring of positive reactions from social media for breaking beauty standards.
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I did not win but I got what I was seeking. I won the hearts of many, I got to highlight Deaf awareness, I stand as the first afro queen to have made it thus far, I represented my little island and I received allll the love one could possibly wish for.... THANK YOU!!! I came, I conquered and if you know me, then you know that's just another story and you will be seeing a lot more from me💃😉👑 To all the queens that represented, congrats and to our new Miss Universe @demileighnp go conquer the world you are indeed a gem!😍😙 @thedavinabennettfoundation it's time to lift you up! P.S. Back on Jamaican soil early and bright a mawning!!!💃💃💃💃♥💛💚 #davinabennett #missuniverse #majoraccomplishment #yourjamaicanqueen #theywillrememberme(opens in a new tab)
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"I did not win but I got what I was seeking," she captioned on Instagram. "I won the hearts of many, I got to highlight deaf awareness, I stand as the first afro queen to have made it thus far, I represented my little island and I received allll the love one could possibly wish for....THANK YOU!!!"
The philanthropist finished third (second runner-up), but she won many hearts on social media. Fans wanted her to win Miss Universe and felt she was cheated of the crown.
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Despite her loss, many praised the pageant queen for embracing her natural hair and providing media representation.
There is still an issue with natural hair acceptance in the workplace, in education and even in Hollywood. The 23 year old wasn't only presenting her beauty, but making a social statement.
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"We should allowed our women to believe that they beautiful and can fit in regardless of size," Bennet told Jamaica Observer(opens in a new tab). "Another one is short, natural hair which I feel should be embraced more, and not ignored."
Bennett has opened the doors for future pageant queens to come, so we won't be surprised if we see her again.
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14 of the most outlandish fast food abominations of 2017
2017 has been challenging for many reasons, but we didn't expect fast food to be one of them. Sadly, here we are.
Don't believe me? Just take a look at this year's most bizarre creations — anything from chicken scented bath bombs to chicken coffee. All of that actually happened this year, and they weren't even the worst.
Take a look at a few of the atrocities that fast food companies rolled out in this sad, sad year.
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1. Volcano Crispy Chicken Chips
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Taco Bell tested out these spicy triangular fried chicken chips in the Knoxville, Tennessee, area around January.
They are chips. Made of chicken.
2. The Naked Chicken Chalupa
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About a week later, they announced a chicken shell.
3. Naked Chicken Chips aka Nuggets
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Months later, Taco Bell released the chip version of the Naked Chicken Chalupa which was basically chicken nuggets with their signature Nacho cheese dipping sauce.
4. Sweet & Crunchy Tenders
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Popeyes released their Sweet & Crunchy Tenders made with shortbread cookie coating.
5. Lucky Charms Shake
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Burger King introduced this sweet shake made of soft vanilla ice cream, syrup, and Lucky Charms.
6. Minions Everything
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McDonald's released Minion-themed food and toys in Singapore locations. That included banana pie, Minion-shaped potatoes, spicy chicken nuggets, and banana ice cream.
Make it end.
7. Zinger Meteorite
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KFC's specialty website, KFC Limited(opens in a new tab), was selling a $20,000 meteorite shaped like a Zinger Chicken Sandwich.
8. Firecracker Burrito
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Taco Bell introduced the Firecracker Burrito which is made up of rice, cheese, beef, tortilla strips, and spicy pop rocks. Yes, as in the candy.
9. Naked Egg Taco
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Taco Bell continuously pushes the bar with weird foods and this time it was a fried egg as a shell.
You could also, quite easily, think of it as a vertical omelet.
Because that's what it is.
10. Chocoladilla
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After testing it out in the UK, Taco Bell brought the Kit Kat Quesadilla to the U.S.
11. KFC Bath Bombs
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KFC gave away 100 fried chicken-scented bath bombs in Japan.
12. Rick and Morty's Szechuan sauce
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Select McDonald's locations gave away the classic Szechuan sauce, in a nod to the Cartoon Network show, only on Oct. 7. It was a shit show.
13. Buffalo-flavored latte
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Tim Hortons released a "zesty buffalo seasoning" coffee drink in two stores in Buffalo, New York.
14. McVegan
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McDonald's tested out their own vegan burger in Tampere, Finland.
OK, this one doesn't sound so bad.
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Your wine-loving friends already know what they like.
They already know their favorite varietals, and they've got their favorite brands listed in notes on their phones for reference. In other words, they don't need you to buy them wine.
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What they do need is a sleek copper corkscrew that – surprise – is shaped like a shark! They need silly drink markers for their dinner guests! They need a suction cup glass holder that'll vastly improve their night time bath ritual!
Where does one find such treasures? The internet, duh. And at less than $20, you're sure to find something within your budget for every wine drinker in your life.
1. For the restaurant buff
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Waiter's corkscrew, $10.24 on Amazon(opens in a new tab)
2. For the bath time drinker
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Sip Caddy, $13.95 from SipCaddy.com(opens in a new tab)
3. For the wine saver
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Banana wine stopper, $8.00 at Fred(opens in a new tab)
4. For the serious chocolate lover
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Set of 4 chocolate wine pairing bars, $19.95 from Williams Sonoma(opens in a new tab)
5. For the candy lover
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Champagne gummy bears, $8.50 from Sugarfina(opens in a new tab)
6. For the cork hoarder
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Corkers pins, $8.00 from Design Bloom Shop(opens in a new tab)
7. For the trivia junkie
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Wine lovers card deck, $15.95 from UncommonGoods(opens in a new tab)
8. For the picknicker
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Set of 2 outdoor wine glasses, $19.99 from UncommonGoods(opens in a new tab)
9. For the serious host
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Wine decanter, $19.97 from Amazon(opens in a new tab)
10. For the exceptionally chill host
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Chewing gum drink markers, $10.00 from Fred(opens in a new tab)
11. For the always prepared
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Pocket wine aerator, $19.95 from UncommonGoods(opens in a new tab)
12. For the snacker
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Set of 2 wine jellies, $15.00 from UncommonGoods(opens in a new tab)
13. For the cozy red wine drinker
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Knit wine bag, $14.95 from Crate&Barrel(opens in a new tab)
14. For the white wine drinker
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Stainless steel wine chiller, $19.95 from CB2(opens in a new tab)
15. For the efficient packer
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Set of two stacking travel wine glasses, $10.00 from Kikkerland(opens in a new tab)
16. For the design conscious
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Textured stemless wine glasses, $12.00 at Anthropologie(opens in a new tab)
17. For the budding wine collector
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Folding wire wine rack, $15.00 from MoMA Design Store(opens in a new tab)
18. For the "Shark Week" devotee
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Shark corkscrew and bottle opener, $15.00 from Umbra(opens in a new tab)
19. For the on-the-go drinker
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Portable wine glass, $13.49 from Firebox(opens in a new tab)
20. For the partier
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Chocolate Champagne cork cordial, $1.00 from Sugarfina(opens in a new tab)
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This pic of the White House decked out for Christmas looks like hell on Earth
Goodbye, Thanksgiving. Hello, Christmas.
The official war for Christmas has begun in the Trump White House as the administration unveiled a sneak peek at its decorations for the holiday season.
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We're living in dark times, folks.
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On Sunday, Stephanie Grisham, the White House director of communications for First Lady Melania Trump, tweeted this nightmarish scene from inside the White House, as she was putting finishing touches on the decorations. Bunches of dead trees illuminated only from the bottom cast a horrifying shadow on the hallway's ceiling, leading to a lonely Christmas tree at the end.
The internet was quick to point out that the whole scene was more spooky than festive -- which is actually quite fitting for the Trump presidency.
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Now, to be fair, when the White House turned all the lights on during the day for the big reveal on Monday(opens in a new tab), the scene looked very different. Still, it looks pretty spooky at night.
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While, sure, some people may like the way the White House looks this Christmas, the conversation behind that horrifying picture is what's going to be burned into the back of my eyes when I shut them at night.
Will Ferrell is speaking to random British people in train toilets
Walking into a public toilet, locking the door and then hearing a voice speaking to you would normally be the stuff of nightmares.
When the voice belongs to Will Ferrell, though, it's sort of okay.
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On Monday, journalist Gavia Baker-Whitelaw shared the following video from inside the toilet of a UK Virgin Train.
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"The toilets on this train FORCE YOU TO LISTEN TO AN ADVERT FOR DADDY'S HOME 2," she wrote on Twitter.
Here's the transcript from that video:
"The door is now locked. Welcome to the Virgin Train washroom. I'm Will Ferrell, the star of the new movie Daddy's Home 2. You'll be pleased to know that it's only my voice in here. You can't see me, but I can see you. Only joking, I'm just joking!
Please don't try to flush nappies, sanitary towels, paper towels, unwanted Christmas jumpers, turkeys, Christmas lights, or granddads down this toilet. Thanks you."
A quick look on Virgin Train's Twitter feed shows that Ferrell's voice message is obviously part of a larger, toilet-themed advertising campaign.
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The ideal conditions for a train toilet are probably silence, but hey -- if you have to listen to someone's voice, it might as well be Ron Burgundy's.
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Brits are angry that a mans story about mental illness was cut from TV because of the royal engagement
When the news broke that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle had got engaged, the nation could scarcely contain its excitement. And, for much of the day, our television screens were plastered with shots and footage of the happy couple.
But, for one man who travelled from Edinburgh, Scotland, to London to talk about his depression and suicide attempt on TV, the day did not turn out to be as joyous. Brian Wilkie's scheduled appearance on ITV's This Morning was cut from the show to make way for the royal wedding news. And, many people have taken to Twitter to express their disappointment that this man's story wasn't heard.
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Last week, Ellie Wilkie tweeted a photo of her and her dad Brian with some words about his experience of living with mental illness.
"This year began with my dad mentally suffering depression and suicide attempt. Today he ends the year starting his new career in becoming a recovery support worker," she wrote.
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"Words can't describe how proud we are," she added. "It's okay not to be okay."
Her tweet went viral, and led to them both being invited to appear on ITV's This Morning show to tell their story.
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But, due to the royal engagement news, their segment was cut from the show's schedule.
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"Due to breaking news our story was cut off live TV," Ellie wrote. "The royal wedding will go ahead however mental health issues will always remain. Until next time Dad."
Ellie's tweet gained a great deal of attention online, with many people stating their disappointment that the segment was cut.
Some felt that given the princes' extensive campaigning on mental health, the royals would have wanted the segment to go ahead.
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Many criticised This Morning for its decision to prioritise the engagement news.
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ITV did not immediately respond to Mashable's request for comment.
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Jeremy Clarkson is flabbergasted by Brexit and expects the lights to go out in the UK soon
Jeremy Clarkson is a candid man. He hates empty buses on off-peak hours. He also dislikes bicycles.
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But what really grinds his gears is Brexit, which he simply can't seem to wrap his head around. "I shall imagine the lights will go out very soon in Britain".
We sat down with The Grand Tour(opens in a new tab) host in light of the show's upcoming second season, which features a selection of celebrities racing against each other in fast cars.
But the two people Clarkson says he simply would have loved to see pitted against each other are Donald Trump and Kim Jong-un. For better or worse, that intensely suspenseful two-man show will be kept off that particular racetrack for the time being.
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Grad student created an amazing Rubiks Cube prototype for the blind
A 1974 invention is getting a very inclusive makeover.
Kristen Sharpless had an interesting assignment for her Intro to Vision Rehab Therapy class. The graduate student from the University of Massachusetts was assigned to create an adapted recreational game for someone who is blind. In a flash of inspiration, she created a Rubik's Cube with tactile inputs so people with limited vision could still use it.
She posted the prototype on Reddit(opens in a new tab) and immediately received an outpour of positive comments.
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"I really liked about how much traction it got and the fact that I could spread awareness that adapting anything is possible if you think hard enough, and that even the most uncreative person (myself!) can think of something that somebody else could find really helpful," she told Mashable.
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"I’m not a terribly creative person (which is why i’m shocked this became so big), so when I saw the Rubik’s Cube, I was thrilled when I knew immediately what to do with it," she said. "I had my best friend in mind (she’s not blind, she just loves playing with these things), so I thought I would make it tactile and blindfold her to have her try it out!"
The Rubik's Cube took her ten minutes to make and cost less than $15. She took an original cube and changed it with items she found in Michael's. The only challenge was finding different textures, but overall she designed each side to make it easy for everyone to understand.
It took her 10 minutes to make and cost less than $15.
"I wanted to share something that was cheap and easy to make so people who work with the blind/ have blind friends or family could replicate it if they wanted," she said.
The 29-year-old student chose the program to work with individuals who are blind or deaf and help them "navigate through the world and live as independently as possible." Sharpless mentioned on Reddit(opens in a new tab), she wants to "work with the Helen Kellers of the world."
"I have spent my entire educational and professional career immersed in the DeafBlind community," she told Mashable. "I would love for the opportunity to give back to a community that has given me so much."
Since there was no description for the product, a Redditor was nice enough to describe each side:
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Now, a Rubik's Cube for the blind has been done before (of course Redditors had to let her know), but she decided on creating a new look on the traditional toy.
As a result of her Reddit post, people began sharing personal stories and praising her for providing a product with blind people in mind.
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"What's awesome about [the two Rubik's Cubes for the blind] is that they all serve the same purpose - to accommodate the needs of people who are blind - but they all take different approaches, which is great because no person - blind or sighted - is the same and has the same needs," she said.
She has no plans of making more of the project or selling them, but she did learn a lot about herself and the impact one object can make for people with disabilities.
All I want for Christmas is this gay as hell nativity scene
Oh, gay nativity scene! Oh, gay nativity scene! How lovely are thy plastic people.
Gay nativity scenes aren't exactly new, but they are rarely spotted in the suburban wild. So over the weekend, comedian Cameron Esposito posted this photo(opens in a new tab) of her neighbor's "Joseph and Joseph" nativity scene, bringing peace and joy to the place that needs it the most -- Twitter.
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I'm sure Joseph and Joseph made such wonderful parents.
Our neighbors’ two Joseph nativity is up & I’m beaming 🎄👬 pic.twitter.com/7OKbFLU7v1(opens in a new tab)
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Before you get all "two men can't have a baby" on me, remember, Mary was a virgin when she gave birth to Jesus. Each scenario is a biological impossibility unless your name is Arnold Schwarzenegger and you're in the movie Junior.
Twitter responded with enthusiasm and a few queer scenarios of their own.
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— Mrs Lady (@Rogue_MrsLady) November 26, 2017(opens in a new tab)
Except now the only woman—who did all the work— has been disenfranchised. Fuckin’ men.
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man the birth of jesus was DEFINITELY a miracle now
— Merry Magdalene Visaggio (@MagsVisaggs) November 25, 2017(opens in a new tab)
Jesus, Marty & Joseph! I ❤️ this!
— Ruben Quesada (@rubenquesada) November 25, 2017(opens in a new tab)
Congratulations to the happy plastic family.
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Tinder pulls global launch of apocalypse show Swipe Night, which is a little too real right now
As I walk into an inner Sydney gallery space, I'm greeted by a member of Tinder's local PR team; we introduce ourselves, and swap a brief, wry smile in the moment where we'd usually shake hands. Another sticks her hand out blithely, and we make small talk about whether people are freaking out too much or not enough. (Because I am fun at social events, I find myself wincing and explaining the concept of herd immunity(Opens in a new tab).) A few minutes later, someone else shakes my hand, and then there's a beat, where we're clearly both wondering if it was the right thing to do. Before the day is over, for exactly the reason you're thinking, the thing they're all there to promote will be cancelled.
Tinder launched Swipe Night, an interactive short-form series set during the last few hours before a comet hits the Earth, in the U.S. in October. Four five-minute, choose-your-own-adventure episodes were available on Sundays only, with users making narrative decisions for their unnamed POV characters by swiping right or left as they do with the main app's dating profile cards; their choices were then displayed on their own profiles, so prospective dates could see whether you chose to save a dog over an (annoying) acquaintance, or cover for a cheating friend rather than tell his girlfriend the truth.
Sunday is the app's busiest day, and Swipe Night capitalised on that, with Tinder's parent company Match Group saying in a November earnings call that the event boosted matches by 30 percent(Opens in a new tab).
The show's first season was due to launch across multiple international markets this Saturday. The new version was to be available for longer (Saturday 10 a.m. until midnight on Sunday), and is also itself shorter, with the original four episodes' worth of story threads cut down to a snappier three. (Representatives at the Sydney briefing couldn't confirm whether the second season, slated for the U.S. summer, would be out at the same time worldwide.)
But Swipe Night's international debut was cancelled on Monday night U.S. time, a decision "made at a global level."
"Tinder was excited to bring this innovation to Australian members, but given the series’ apocalyptic theme, and because we are sensitive to the current events our members are experiencing, we felt it would be difficult to launch it in the right spirit," the company's PR firm told Mashable Australia on Tuesday afternoon.
In addition to Australia, which confirmed its 100th case of COVID-19 on Tuesday,(Opens in a new tab) Swipe Night was rolling out to users in the U.K., Brazil, Indonesia, and Sweden, as well as five of the ten worst-affected countries: South Korea, France, Germany, Spain, and Italy. The latter country, which at over 9000 confirmed cases is home to the biggest outbreak outside of mainland China, is now under a nationwide lockdown.
Of course, the coronavirus outbreak, while very serious, is highly unlikely to be the actual end of the world. But playing a demo of the international version, hours before the cancellation, it was clear the apocalyptic premise hits different in March 2020.
With coronavirus panic inspiring aggressive toilet paper stockpiling, stock market plunges(Opens in a new tab), racist aggression(Opens in a new tab), and even violence in supermarkets aisles(Opens in a new tab), it was hard not to watch the more chaotic street scenes in this story about the end of the world without finding it all a little less light-hearted than it's supposed to be. The scenes show mostly Gen Z actors (50 percent of the app's users are under 25) spilling out of their comet-watching parties, screaming, panicking, vomiting, and almost entirely out for themselves.
Asked to choose between making altruistic or selfish choices — picking up hitchhikers, giving someone my bodega-scavenged first aid kit, mugging a kind stranger for their phone when mine dies — I found myself genuinely concerned, even distressed, about what my choices might say about me, as if it were a test run for how I'll act when I'm facing off with my neighbours for the last pack of hand soap in our local supermarket a month from now.
I felt this more than when I "played" Bandersnatch on Netflix, where the fascination of the medium was everything and the character choices, whatever their impact, didn't feel like they were mine. I am an anxious person, basically well-intentioned and also constantly low-key terrified I'm actually a terrible person, and hours later, I'm still thinking about whether that desperate, screaming hitchhiker would have been OK after I chose to drive past her to protect my (deeply unlikable) fictional friends.
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During October's Swipe Night, people found the choices revealed on others' profiles to be surprisingly helpful; plenty of people declared their utter lack of interest in anyone who chose to cover for the cheating friend, for instance. Until the cancellation, I was wondering if people more emotionally robust than I am might find themselves judging potential dates on other, more pragmatic criteria, like whether they took the first aid kit or the Cheetos from the looted bodega.
Some people are riding out the age of coronavirus anxiety by making memes about songs to wash your hands to or how much we touch our faces; others in more perverse ways, like watching Contagion, or playing Plague Inc. And it's equally understandable if that anxiety manifests in wanting to find people to connect with, or conversely, in wanting to self-isolate even before the government tells you to.
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Sydney, like most medium-sized cities in the world right now, seems a little unsure exactly how tightly we ought to be gripped by the clammy hand of panic; tens of thousands of Australians are still recovering from the summer's bushfires, and many others seem more disturbed by the toilet paper freakouts than COVID-19 itself. Three deaths nationwide is undeniably a tragedy, though it doesn't yet feel like a crisis.
But we're in a moment of unprecedented global awareness and fear, where our ability to care for one another and deal collectively with something that could endanger us all is being tested, and that awareness ultimately made Swipe Night 2020 a distressing experience, even in a country hit less hard by this particular threat, at least for now. In Italy or the Republic of Korea, it would likely feel even more unnecessary.
Health experts, and Tinder itself, are advising users to swipe away but stay safe, possibly even opting for first dates over FaceTime. And if you want to break the ice by asking what they'd do if they had three hours to live, you don't need a high-tech choose-your-own-adventure series for that.
YouTuber Daniel Keem, aka Keemstar, has announced his retirement after almost 14 years of talking about internet feuds on DramaAlert. This doesn't mean the end for the long-running YouTube show, though.
Keemstar revealed his plan to retire via Twitter(Opens in a new tab) on Monday, a declaration many initially suspected was a troll(Opens in a new tab). It wouldn't be out of character considering he started on YouTube with clips of himself trolling in video games. However in a subsequent 12-minute video entitled "Retired,"(Opens in a new tab) Keemstar reiterated that he would indeed be stepping down from his role as DramaAlert's host, explaining that the job had simply lost its appeal.
"I'm your host, Killer Keemstar, and I quit," said Keemstar. "Quite frankly, I'm not having fun anymore."
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Keemstar primarily put his retirement down to "cancel culture." DramaAlert has over 5.7 million subscribers and covers feuds, relationships, and drama concerning online personalities. According to Keemstar, the public's willingness to contact YouTubers' sponsors about their behaviour in droves has "caused everyone to stop speaking their minds" and thus cut down on the drama of the internet.
"In entertainment you need drama," said Keemstar in his explanatory video. "You need conflict, right? That's a core part of entertainment… And that just doesn't happen anymore with the 'cancel culture' stuff."
Keemstar himself has been called out(Opens in a new tab) multiple times over the course of his career for various issues, including his use of the N word, as well as stating that he "can't wait to report [TotalBiscuit's] death"(Opens in a new tab) while the game critic was battling terminal cancer. He later apologised for these incidents, but also tried to justify(Opens in a new tab) his use of the N word by explaining it was in response to being racially targeted as an Italian. He further noted that a DNA test found he was "9 percent African,"(Opens in a new tab) and stated he was "9 percent Black"(Opens in a new tab) when defending people who fly the Confederate flag(Opens in a new tab).
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While Keemstar's gripes with "cancel culture" appear to be his primary reason for retiring, he also cited multiple other factors contributing to his decision, including past changes to how YouTube notifies subscribers of new videos(Opens in a new tab) and surfaces videos. He further lamented a perceived loss of community among YouTubers, noting that there are many more than there were before and that people are no longer all focused on the same topic at the same time.
"We used to have a commentary community where everybody was talking about the same thing," said Keemstar. "And that commentary community has disappeared and they're all making longform documentaries, because the longer videos [are] the more watchtime, the more they'll get promoted in the algorithm, and blah blah blah blah blah blah."
Incidentally, Keemstar stated that once he's moved on from hosting DramaAlert he would like to make "documentary stuff." He also expressed an interest in boxing, because the YouTuber to amateur boxer pipeline remains a real and baffling thing.
Though Keemstar will no longer be fronting DramaAlert himself, the show will go on. He has been actively looking for a replacement over the past two years, and hopes that announcing his retirement will help him find a new host before he leaves on Mar. 8 — his 40th birthday.
Brits are angry that a mans story about mental illness was cut from TV because of the royal engagement
When the news broke that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle had got engaged, the nation could scarcely contain its excitement. And, for much of the day, our television screens were plastered with shots and footage of the happy couple.
But, for one man who travelled from Edinburgh, Scotland, to London to talk about his depression and suicide attempt on TV, the day did not turn out to be as joyous. Brian Wilkie's scheduled appearance on ITV's This Morning was cut from the show to make way for the royal wedding news. And, many people have taken to Twitter to express their disappointment that this man's story wasn't heard.
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Last week, Ellie Wilkie tweeted a photo of her and her dad Brian with some words about his experience of living with mental illness.
"This year began with my dad mentally suffering depression and suicide attempt. Today he ends the year starting his new career in becoming a recovery support worker," she wrote.
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"Words can't describe how proud we are," she added. "It's okay not to be okay."
Her tweet went viral, and led to them both being invited to appear on ITV's This Morning show to tell their story.
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But, due to the royal engagement news, their segment was cut from the show's schedule.
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"Due to breaking news our story was cut off live TV," Ellie wrote. "The royal wedding will go ahead however mental health issues will always remain. Until next time Dad."
Ellie's tweet gained a great deal of attention online, with many people stating their disappointment that the segment was cut.
Some felt that given the princes' extensive campaigning on mental health, the royals would have wanted the segment to go ahead.
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Many criticised This Morning for its decision to prioritise the engagement news.
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ITV did not immediately respond to Mashable's request for comment.
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Amazon fires 2 workers who publicly criticized warehouse conditions
Amazon has fired two workers who recently criticized the company over its warehouse conditions during the current coronavirus pandemic.
As the Washington Post(Opens in a new tab), which is owned by Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos(Opens in a new tab), reports, employees Emily Cunningham and Maren Costa were both fired on Friday. The two UX designers were members of the Amazon Employees for Climate Justice group and had "publicly denounced(Opens in a new tab)" via Twitter the “lack of safe and sanitary working conditions” warehouse workers were being subjected to. Cuningham was the first to tweet criticism, which was then retweeted by Costa. Both offered to match donations(Opens in a new tab) up to $500 in order to help warehouse workers who have “struggle[d] to get consistent, sufficient protections and procedures from our employer.”
In a statement, Amazon spokesperson Drew Herdener said the workers had been fired for “repeatedly violating internal policies.” Stating, “We support every employee’s right to criticize their employer’s working conditions, but that does not come with blanket immunity against any and all internal policies.”
Amazon’s external communications policy, the Post reports, stops employees from commenting publicly on its business without approval from executives. Herdener has stated previously that this policy does not allow employees to “publicly disparage or misrepresent the company.” Amazon did not immediately respond to a request for comment.
According to the New York Times(Opens in a new tab), a third employee, Chris Hayes, also had his employment cut short by Amazon after he criticized its treatment of warehouse workers. On Friday, Hayes invited co-workers to a virtual discussion with warehouse workers. He'd already handed in his resignation and was planning to leave his job on April 17, but a few hours after the invitation was sent out, a human resources representative told him he would no longer be allowed to work.
This is not the only instance where Amazon has appeared to fire workers over criticism of the company’s handling of the coronavirus. Chris Smalls, an assistant manager at the JFK8 Amazon Fulfillment Center, was fired for “violating quarantine(Opens in a new tab)” and having close contact with someone who had coronavirus symptoms. Smalls had previously organized a walkout to demand reasonable protections. An internal report(Opens in a new tab) suggested Amazon had intended to smear Smalls by making him “the face of the entire union/organizing movement” and characterized him as “not smart, or articulate.”
More recently, Amazon has started handing out face masks(Opens in a new tab) and performing temperature test on workers. The company is also hiring 75,000 more warehouse staff(Opens in a new tab) to cope with demand and placed new grocery customers on a wait list(Opens in a new tab) this week as it struggles to keep delivery slots open.
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Millennials arent entitled. Its employers that need to change.
You've seen the headlines. Millennials are "entitled"(opens in a new tab) at work. We're the "Me Me Me Generation,"(opens in a new tab) and, apparently, we want "success on a plate."(opens in a new tab) But, maybe it's time for employers to take a cold, hard look in the mirror and ask themselves this: Are you as receptive as you could be to the skills and ideas that millennials are bringing to the table?
Given that 35 percent(opens in a new tab) of the workforce will consist of millennials by 2020—and a further 24 percent will be Gen Z workers—it's time to start ditching the negative epithets, and start embracing this generation's assets at work.
Emma Gannon—author of The Multi-Hyphen Method(opens in a new tab), a book about what the future of the workplace might look like—says millennials get labelled "entitled" because "they get frustrated" by outdated and rigid workplace environments which aren't open to doing things differently.
"Millennials really stand out to me as a generation that's been experimental from an early age."
Gannon says that because millennials grew up online, we're a generation that taught ourselves digital skills and shortcuts during our teenage years.
"Millennials really stand out to me as a generation that's been experimental from an early age," she told Mashable. "I grew up using MySpace, teaching myself how to code, learning basic HTML, trying to create something visually exciting. My friends would come round after school and we’d build our own websites and take pictures of each other and upload them."
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When it comes to transferring these skills to the workplace, Gannon says millennials get frustrated when they find themselves in corporate organisations that aren't as open to change, and that are reluctant to break with the status quo.
"Millennials are a generation that has grown up teaching themselves stuff, so when they’re stuck in quite a rigid environment in a corporation that’s been doing it for 50 years, it jars with you because you know there are shortcuts and you know you could do it a different way," she said. "Which is why they're labelled entitled because they get really frustrated in a meeting for a long time and you think, ‘I wonder if we could do it a different way.'"
Work culture has shifted, Gannon says, and millennials' focus isn't the same as that of Gen X or Baby Boomers. "We were sold a career ladder that doesn’t exist anymore," she said. "I think we looked at our parents’ generation and thought, oh OK, you get a job and then you move up the ladder, and then you want your boss' job, so you get promoted and you get a pay rise and it’s all great." As Gannon outlines in her book, millennials would rather take a $7,600 (opens in a new tab)(£5,700) (opens in a new tab)salary cut to work(opens in a new tab) in an environment that affords better quality of life.
So, is this tension between millennial employees' expectations, and what their employers are providing, at the heart of millennials' purported "entitled" attitudes? Claire Jones—associate director of employee engagement at global PR firm Weber Shandwick—certainly seems to think so.
"Without doubt, Millennials have different expectations of their employers," she says. "Millennials want to work for employers that show good corporate citizenship, are fair in their behaviour, that communicate with openness and transparency, and that have values-driven leaders who really do walk the talk."
Jones says that to older generations, millennials' "sense of integrity" can be misconstrued as a "sense of entitlement."
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According to Stephen Isherwood, chief executive of the Institute of Student Employers(opens in a new tab), employers find it difficult to manage younger employees' expectations. "Employers tell us that top of their issues list is managing the expectation of new graduate hires," says Isherwood. He feels that this could be due to "a perceived sense of entitlement".
"New graduate hires have limited work and life experience," he adds, "so whatever their perception of work or what they feel they have a right to, they will need to gain knowledge and experience to progress."
Generational differences in education could be another reason for this tension, says Susy Roberts, the founder of people development consultancy Hunter Roberts. Roberts says older generation were taught to do "their own research, show their workings," and explain how they reached their answers. "For millennials, the education system has been entirely different," Roberts says. "Group-work is encouraged, research is no longer conducted alone in libraries, and debate and discussion form the basis of lessons, lectures and seminars."
Translated into the workplace, older generations can find this way of working "incredibly alien," says Roberts. "They were taught to think for themselves, find their own facts and stand on their own two feet." Roberts says that in view of this, it's "easy to understand why millennials can seem entitled" to older generations. "But they’re not – they’re just different."
As technology continues to evolve, embracing this difference will become more necessary. "As technological innovation rapidly changes the way we work, it will be crucial for older generations to learn from millennials' approaches to work," says Martin Ewings, director of specialist markets at Experis.
Currently, outdated and rigid work cultures are standing in the way of making the most of millennial workers' skills, according to Gannon.
"You’ve got these millennials with so many skills, niche skills and experiences, that aren’t being put to work because there’s so much structure around old ways of working that are still so prevalent right now," she says.
In order for these unique skills to be fully harnessed, it's high time we let go of what worked for workplaces in the past, and make accommodations for the multi-generational workplace of the future.
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The painful reality of rejection sensitive dysphoria
"Sorry, I can’t make it today. Next week?" It was just a text — a friend cancelling on me for plans we had later that day. But I kept reading and re-reading it; continually dismantling the message and putting it back together again, analysing every letter, comma, and emoji for the things left unsaid. Why did they suggest ‘next week,’ but not give a specific date? Was I being brushed off? Did they find a better offer for how to spend the day? Of course they did — they clearly couldn’t stand me. Is it because I didn’t laugh enough at their meme last night? Had I been too self-absorbed when talking about my day?
Maybe it was because I arrived late last time we hung out. Or perhaps I was too loud. Or too quiet. Or too boring. In my mind, I was simultaneously ‘too’ everything and yet not enough at the same time. Each and every scenario burrowed its way under my skin, biting down, and sucking my blood until every pore and nerve ending stung. The tears started and they wouldn’t stop coming. Everything hurt. And it was just a stupid text.
What is rejection sensitive dysphoria?
Once I found out what rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) was, I realized that my reaction, in hindsight, wasn’t stupid and actually made a lot of sense. Rejection sensitive dysphoria(Opens in a new tab) is a little-known symptom of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) wherein we struggle to regulate our emotions when faced with real or perceived rejection. This results in a heightened emotional response that, to neurotypical people, might seem disproportionate. At the time of receiving the 'brush off' text, I thought I was losing my mind. I knew that reacting like this over a cancelled plan wasn’t "normal," that it truly was no deeper than the seven-word text I received, but a mild disappointment was all my brain needed to convince me of a catastrophe. If straw was all it took to break the proverbial camel’s back, I was constantly one piece of straw away from my legs buckling under the weight of self-loathing and the feeling that I was unlovable and unworthy of anything good.
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I actually found out what RSD was by accident. I saw others respond to mild rejections like I did — and none of them experienced days-long spirals of depression, hysterical crying, and even thoughts of self-harm because they didn’t know what to do with all the feelings inside of them. For a while, I actually thought I had borderline personality disorder (a common misdiagnosis(Opens in a new tab) in women who actually have ADHD), but I didn’t relate to other parts of it — just the rejection part. So I then figured that it was just a strange character flaw I had, a glitch in the system, until one day, while researching another aspect of ADHD, a small footnote referring to RSD and how it impacted people with ADHD was mentioned. Although approximately a third of people(Opens in a new tab) with ADHD experience RSD, it’s often overlooked and not discussed as much as other aspects of ADHD on social media, meaning that those of us who experience it aren’t given the resources, tools, or even the basic reassurance of ‘this is what’s going, you’re not insane’ to help us navigate RSD.
"When I try to describe to other people what ADHD is like I usually use the metaphor of an overheated laptop with about ten tabs open simultaneously, all with vastly different topics and one of them playing music."
Even when I was diagnosed with ADHD last year, I had no idea that it had anything to do with how I handled rejection. I mean, the name ADHD itself doesn’t appear to account for any emotional problems — just inattentiveness and a brain that goes 100 miles an hour — but as more and more(Opens in a new tab) adults get diagnosed with ADHD, we’re learning that the disorder is a lot more complex (Opens in a new tab)than we once thought.
ADHD's impact on emotions
At the heart of ADHD is a lack of regulation(Opens in a new tab). ADHD is a form of executive dysfunction(Opens in a new tab) — which means my brain lacks the ability to organise and prioritise not just the thoughts inside my head, but pretty much everything on the outside. Think: my tasks, time, and possessions — you name it. What I didn’t realise is that this lack of regulation also applies to feelings.
Psychiatrist Dr. William Dodson writes(Opens in a new tab) in a paper entitled "Emotional Regulation and Rejection Sensitivity" that the "hyperarousal" of ADHD means we never get a single moment where our minds are just… quiet. "Their minds are always going 100 MPH until they are totally exhausted," he wrote. When I try to describe to other people what ADHD is like I usually use the metaphor of an overheated laptop with about ten tabs open simultaneously, all with vastly different topics and one of them playing music.
Although more than 30 percent(Opens in a new tab) of people with ADHD say "emotional instability" is the most debilitating part of their condition, it’s something that none of us really talk about. For me, it’s something I shied away from opening up about because we all know the tropes around "hysterical women" and "crazy ex girlfriends." If I were to tell someone that a fleeting situationship left me crushed under my duvet for two weeks, or that I had to take three sick days from my internship after hearing that I wouldn’t be hired permanently, they’d think I was unhinged. They’d find me off-putting. And then the cycle of rejection would continue.
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Dr. Lindsay Popilskis is a practising psychologists who has treated several people with ADHD in the past. In a statement to Mashable, she said that "when an individual experiences RSD, they can respond with extreme embarrassment, anger, avoidance, constant second guessing of themself, or even completely shutting down emotionally."
"The interpretation of criticism from others activates the sympathetic nervous system which evokes a physiological fight-or-flight response in an effort to protect the individual's emotional well-being," she explained. "This leads to triggering the areas of their brain associated with blood pressure, emotions and decision-making. This can impact a person mentally as well as even physically with some individuals truly feeling as if they're being punched in the gut."
"Consequently," she explained, "the individual may respond by flight, (as an example of how this may manifest, this can cause an individual to isolate themself), or on the flipside, fight, (which can manifest itself as rage towards others)."
"The term 'dysphoria' literally comes from the Greek word for 'unbearable' — and while it might seem like I’m being dramatic, there’s no term more fitting to describe rejection sensitive dysphoria."
"Because perceived criticism brings on such an intense physiological and neurological response, individuals with ADHD may find themselves ruminating over future socialization scenarios, feeling highly sensitive towards rejection, withdrawing from social opportunities altogether, feeling shameful about themselves, or turning to extreme perfectionism," she added. "Emotional dysregulation is typically a paramount demarcation of ADHD, which presents itself in someone with ADHD as becoming overly excited, focusing more on negatives than positives, developing anxiety, and experiencing relationship obstacles.”
RSD's impact on relationships
Heartbreak is a universal human experience: that dull pain in your chest; the inability to eat, and the sadness gnawing away at you. But I realised that my heart was getting broken at least once a week, if not more, and it wasn’t even anything to do with dating or crushes most of the time. It was about the way a friend looked at me when I made a joke, that mocking read receipt on WhatsApp coupled with no reply, or getting that polite-but-curt email from an editor saying: "Not for me thanks, but please keep pitching!" These are all simple things that, to a neurotypical person, would barely warrant the bat of an eyelid. But because my brain is unable to properly filter and process these rejections as being not a big deal, anything that can even be perceived as negative ends up causing me to spiral into a void of anxiety and self-loathing. As Dodson points out in his paper, the term 'dysphoria' literally comes from the Greek word for 'unbearable' — and while it might seem like I’m being dramatic, there’s no term more fitting to describe rejection sensitive dysphoria.
The emotional pain that comes with rejection sensitivity can very easily overpower and debilitate me, and the difference is, while I can take medication or undertake treatment for things like my depression and anxiety, I can’t do that with RSD because it is literally a result of how my brain is wired. You can’t change a neurodivergent brain to become neurotypical, and I wouldn’t want to anyway, but because RSD is part of the inherent structure of my brain, I’m limited in what I can do to stop myself from experiencing it to the intensity that I do. I can supplement dopamine with medication to improve my concentration and decrease my inattentiveness, make the cogs turn a little slower, but I can’t stop those cogs in their tracks altogether.
RSD is especially complicated because my ADHD also impacts my relationships in other ways, making it a near-relentless, sometimes toxic cycle where various aspects of my ADHD feed off one another. My executive dysfunction, fatigue, and inattentiveness can, to the untrained eye, make me look like a terrible friend or partner. On the one hand, I’m often late to things, I end up cancelling at the last minute, I can’t maintain my attention during important conversations, and I have a tendency to forget important dates like birthdays and anniversaries. On the other hand, I’m hyper-aware of how these traits can be perceived as carelessness and how they affect other people, so I often end up stuck in a loop of constant apologies, desperately seeking reassurance and forgiveness, and being unable to stop the apologies tumbling out my mouth no matter how many times they tell me it’s okay. I get so far into my own head about the implications of my actions that I fail to see how, in trying to mitigate their impact, I just end up digging myself a hole.
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The same goes for my professional relationships — I can end up hyper-focusing on a task so much that I end up missing deadlines and meetings, leading to me bombarding my boss with messages asking them if I’m getting sacked because I don’t understand why on Earth they would even want an employee who seems incapable of performing the very basic tenets of a job. At a previous job, I ended up becoming so worried that a simple miscommunication made my manager angry that I ended up overcompensating, writing them a novella of a Slack message trying to explain my point of view in much detail as humanly possible in order to solve the misunderstanding which, unsurprisingly, came off as overly intense to them. Of course, learning that I had concerned this manager with my Slack message made my rejection sensitivity worse, and so the cycle continued. Note to certain employers: not all workers are neurotypical, so maybe don't call us "intense."
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As one would expect, RSD naturally makes dating really difficult for me. Between September 2015 and January 2021, I was never actually ‘single’ — I was a serial monogamist, having back-to-back, often emotionally volatile relationships. When the relationships would end, I would become inconsolable for a couple weeks or so (my brothers love to bring up me crying face down on the carpet when my first relationship ended), but once I accepted a relationship was over, I’d very quickly find myself involved with another person because not only did I want to prove to myself that I was loveable, but I also didn’t want to deal with the feelings of rejection and heartbreak from the last relationship. This meant that when the new relationship inevitably ended, I’d find myself dealing with compounded heartbreak accumulated from other relationships that I never actually got over. It was when I found myself bed-bound and unable to eat because of a situationship I started mere months after splitting up with another long-term boyfriend that I realised that this cycle needed to end, or else I’d end up wearing myself down until there was nothing left.
So, for the first time in my life, I’m trying to stay single. I say try because, of course, I find myself dabbling on dating apps or developing crushes on people. At first, it was difficult because I subconsciously found myself trying to continue my habit of simply transferring my feelings onto another person through crushes on friends or short-term attachments on dating apps. I thought being in a relationship (or, at least, being involved with someone romantically) was the only way to keep a lid on this Pandora's Box of cumulative rejection and heartbreak. But over time, I got better at checking myself and noticing when I was blowing little crushes or Hinge matches out of proportion. I realised that running away from my RSD and using other people to keep it at bay ultimately didn’t serve me because, while people come and go, I’m the one who sits with my own feelings and thus I’m the one who should be responsible for them. This is still a work in progress, so I try to remind myself often that being single doesn’t mean I’m perpetually unwanted — I just want to make sure that when I’m ready to try relationships again, I’m at a stage where I can handle them in a healthy way.
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I can’t expect everyone in my life to fully understand what it’s like to have RSD and to be neurodivergent — but surrounding myself with people who are empathetic, patient, and at the very least try to understand has made navigating life with RSD a lot easier. What also helped was learning what RSD actually was. I could never find the words to express exactly why I was trapped under this extreme, often wordless pain and anxiety, but once I found that it had a name and explanation, I was set free. I wasn’t losing my mind — or worse than that, wasn’t a fundamentally bad or toxic person — there was an explanation in why I reacted to things the way I did, which allowed me to let go of the guilt and shame I had about responding how I do to things.
And finally, I stopped taking it as an insult when people described me as an "intense" person, because while that may be true, intensity doesn’t have to be a bad thing. While the intense emotions I feel around rejection can be difficult, I feel lucky to have the capacity to love things and experience life with as much vibrancy as I do. Warts and all.
Ultimately, neurotypical people need to learn about neurodivergence and RSD because they need to understand that reacting a certain way to rejection and confrontation not because they're “intense” or "crazy" — they just have different needs because of how they're wired. As adult ADHD becomes more normalised in society, maybe we all need a little bit more compassion.
The #MBakuChallenge is taking off, but this 7-year-old already won
Actor Winston Duke may have been one of the highlights of Black Panther but now, it's his character with a formidable Nigerian accent that's stealing all the attention online.
Welcome to the #M'BakuChallenge(opens in a new tab), a tribute of sorts to the Jabari tribe leader M'Baku, played by Duke in Black Panther. It's pretty simple: Twitter users have recreated the dialogue from M'Baku's introductory scene and have filmed their own versions. The results are surprisingly accurate and hilarious—but it's the kids that have taken the spotlight.
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Seven-year-old Jordan's version is flawless, but it's probably best not to watch if you're sensitive to spoilers and have yet to visit Wakanda.
Aside from M'Baku, Jordan also plays two other characters, Zuri and the Black Panther himself. With the strength of who knows how much vibranium, he nails it effortlessly.
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"I mean just in case y’all need a stunt double for the next movie... just giving y’all options," Jordan's mom posted on Instagram(opens in a new tab), though she didn't mention the number of trips to the movie theater it took for Jordan to memorize the lines. The video has since gone viral, and Black Panther star Michael B. Jordan has even left a few comments of support for him.
"Lil man you nailed it!!!!," he wrote(opens in a new tab).
But Jordan's not the only one who has an impeccable impersonation.
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Thankfully it seems as if Duke knows imitation is the highest form of flattery. He tweeted his seal of approval for those participating in the challenge, and encouraged people to "keep them coming-o!!!"
Air fryer stuffing is an easy, tasty Thanksgiving dish
Here's a little secret about air fryers — you can cook anything in them. I'm not saying you can cook any food well in an air fryer, but the machine is effectively a convection oven...and you can cook just about anything in an oven.
I mean, hell, I just made a Thanksgiving turkey in the air fryer. So...what about stuffing? The answer is easy. Yes, of course you can make a Thanksgiving stuffing in an air fryer. And it can actually turn out to be pretty tasty.
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But why would you make stuffing in the air fryer? Well maybe it's the only cooking method you have, or your oven's full, or — I don't know — you just want to. Whatever the case, we've created a recipe of sorts that uses an air fryer, and only an air fryer, to make stuffing. No pans, no stovetop, no baking dish. Before we get into the details, let's go over the ingredients and basic directions.
Ingredients
White bread - Five slices, cubed. This creates about three to four servings. I made a small batch, about three servings, because I had only a small air fryer on hand. Just multiply the ingredients top make a bigger batch.
Egg - one egg, beaten and seasoned with salt and pepper
Half of a smallonion - diced
One garlic clove - finely minced
Celery - two ribs, chopped
Sage - a heaping handful, finely chopped
Thyme - as much as your heart desires
Chicken broth - roughly one cup. Or veggie broth.
Italian sausage - about one to two links (optional)
Butter - one and a half tablespoons, melted
Directions
Do all your chopping, dicing, and prepping, setting the ingredients aside.
Preheat your air fryer to 340 degrees Fahrenheit.
Toss your cubed bread into the air fryer. It doesn't even have to be preheated fully. Cook the bread for just a few minutes, tossing the contents of the basket frequently. You're looking for a light toast on the bread so it holds up to the moisture of the chicken broth later. My bread was ready in about three minutes. Remove it when finished and place in a large mixing bowl.
Slice your sausage links open, then using your fingers, break off nickel-sized lumps of sausage.
When the air fryer is preheated, drop your sausage lumps into the air fryer. And let them cook for at least five minutes. Basically keep an eye on it, but you want the sausage pretty much cooked through and just beginning to crisp.
While the sausage is cooking, place the rest of your ingredients — egg, onion, garlic, celery, sage, thyme, and broth — in the bowl holding the bread. Season with salt and pepper.
When you feel the sausage is done, remove it from the air fryer. Dump the sausage in the bowl and mix well, until all the ingredients are evenly incorporated.
Pack the stuffing into the air fryer basket, patting and shaping it with your hands. Air fry at 340 degrees for at least six minutes.
After six minutes, check on your stuffing. If the top looks very crisp, reduce the heat to about 280 degrees and cook for at least ten more minutes. If it does not look super crisp, cook for another few minutes until the top looks very crispy.
Keep cooking the stuffing at 280 degrees until you can dip the backside of a fork, or a toothpick, into the center of the stuffing and it is no longer mushy. Spoon it out and enjoy.
The details
Here's the thing you need to know about this stuffing recipe: You would get better results doing a more labor-intensive, traditional way of cooking. But this air fryer recipe is for simplicity and ease. That's why I insisted on two things: 1. All the cooking had to be done in the air fryer. And 2. I wouldn't just stuff a baking dish into an air fryer.
Lots of air fryer stuffing(Opens in a new tab) recipes(Opens in a new tab) you'll find online suggested one or the other and, to me, that's cheating. You gotta do the whole thing in the air fryer, like any other air fryer dish.
So, first things first, I think it's really important to get everything chopped, cut, prepped, melted, etc. This recipe is so simple if you're fully ready to go. Here's everything prepped and in dishes.
Raw egg! Broth. Bread and butter. Credit: Mashable
A quick note: You're to want to mince the garlic and herbs as finely as possible — you want it to spread evenly throughout the dish. Also, the dice on the onion and celery should be pretty small as well. Since we're not cooking the veggies in a pan before putting it into the stuffing, you run the risk of raw vegetables if they're cut into big chunks.
Once that's all prepped you're going to toast the bread. You should already have the air fryer preheated to 340. Once you dump in the bread, shake it every 30 seconds or so. Pull it out and dump it into a large bowl when the cubes start to get a light brown toast to them. The should look something like this.
The lightest of light toasts on this bread.Credit: Mashable
Next it's time to pre-cook the sausage. Those small lumps of sausage should cook in no time at all. Drop them in the basket and let them air fry, undisturbed for at least three to four minutes at 340 degrees. While the sausage is cooking dump the rest of the ingredients into the big bowl with the toasted bread. Give it a nice mix. You want to see herbs spread throughout the entire mixture. The egg, broth, and butter should moisten the mixture throughout as well. When the 3-4 minutes are up, you should be able to shake the basket and the sausage will release from the cooking surface. It'll start to look something like this.
Not ready yet, but pretty close.Credit: Mashable
Cook the sausage until done or at least 145 degrees internal temperature. It only took me a few minutes more. You want to see the sausage begin to really brown. And you can't really overcook the sausage, it's just going into a stuffing so don't stress.
Dump the cooked sausage in the same bowl as the rest of the stuff, mix it around very well, and throw it in the air fryer basket. I was working with a tiny air fryer this week, so I had no space to leave gaps for airflow, but, if you're able, leave some space on the surface of your basket for air to circulate. This'll help ensure crispy stuffing all around. Here's how my uncooked stuffing looked.
Ready to air fry.Credit: Mashable
Air fry at 340 degrees for at least six minutes. If the top is starting to look very crispy, turn the temperature down to about 280 degrees. If it still needs some crisping, let the high heat go for longer. When you feel like things look sufficiently crispy, reduce the heat to 280 degrees and cook the stuffing for probably at least 10 more minutes. You want to be able to put the back of a fork into it and no longer feel a ton of mush. In fact, if I were to redo the air fryer stuffing I probably would have cooked mine even a bit longer. It looked something like this.
Crispy on the edges! Not bad. Credit: Mashable
And here it is, scooped on a plate.
Is it gorgeous plating? Absolutely not. But it was tasty. Credit: Mashable
The verdict? A wholehearted pretty good. Stuffing is my absolute favorite part of Thanksgiving. For me, it's the main attraction. So I would probably take the time to cook the veggies and slow bake the stuffing if left to my own devices. I just think you get a better, more cohesive dish. But, if you're in a pinch, or cooking in a college dorm or something, this isn't bad at all. The interior of my stuffing probably needed a few more minutes of cook time, but otherwise, it was savory, delicious stuffing. The crispy edges were fantastic, the veggies added a small crunch. It was 100 percent pretty good stuffing. I'll take that.
So there you have it, decent stuffing done entirely in the air fryer. If you find yourself in a pinch on Thanksgiving, you could certainly do worse.
Watch two Olympians agree to share the gold in rare and heartwarming tie
Many people consider the Olympics to be the ultimate platform for competition, and though that may be true, some of the best Olympic moments happen when athletes work together.
On Sunday, for instance, not one but two athletes from competing countries took home an Olympic gold medal after a competition resulted in a rare but heartwarming tie. How? Well, Qatar's Mutaz Essa Barshim and Italy's Gianmarco Tamberi — who happen to be friends on and off the track —agreed to share a gold medal in the men's high jump.
Both athletes performed successful high jumps at 2.37 meters (7 feet, 8 inches) but each missed the Olympic-record high jump of 2.39 meters (7 feet, 10 inches) three times. Rather than embarking on another tie-breaking jump-off, the two decided to be co-gold medalists.
During the deciding huddle, Barshim asked a track official if they could each have a gold medal. After learning that a tie was possible, the competitors agreed, embraced, and went on to celebrate with their fans.
Peacock's official Twitter account tweeted a clip of the special moment, and we're not going to lie, you may get emotional.
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"Talk about Olympic spirit. The Olympic spirit is to build a peaceful and better world in the Olympic sphere which requires mutual understanding with the spirit of friendship, solidarity, and fair play," a commentator can be heard saying during the clip. "And we see this explained today so beautifully as they both get to share this gold medal moment."
"I still can't believe it happened," Tamberi told the Associated Press(Opens in a new tab). "Sharing with a friend is even more beautiful. ... It was just magical."
"For me, coming here, I know for a fact that for the performance I did, I deserve that gold," Barshim said. "He did the same thing, so I know he deserved that gold."
This gold will be Barshim's third medal (all in the high jump), and Tamberi's first Olympic medal.
Look at those faces! :')Credit: Abbie Parr / Getty Images
"I was in ecstasy. My heart was exploding," Tamberi told the AP. "I was just full of emotions and I just screamed at him before he got in the blocks and I just supported him. I'm the captain of the national team so I just felt to do something."
Barshim was thrilled as well and hopes this tie sent a positive message to younger generations.
"He's one of my best friends. Not only on the track but outside of the track," Barshim told the AP. "We're always together almost. True spirit, sportsmen spirit, coming here and delivering this message."
"[I] appreciate what he's done, he appreciates what I've done. This is amazing."